Under what circumstances would a man ever turn down guaranteed food and sex?
If I am to rely on my experiences with my male friends and their banter about various escapades that certainly make one blush, the answer would be NEVER!! Does distance, relationship status or male emotion come into play when making the decision to accept the invitation for a night to remember? ....
Food is a given unless the person can't cook lol, sex is another story. I definitely was not always trying to exercise morality in my life but since I got on that path 5 years ago, the opportunity to engage in jump offs from women that I kn...ew prior to getting on that path has been there, (Have not formed any friendships of that nature since then) These were women that I was still physically attracted to, but my conscience and wanting to maintain a healthy relationship with God along with some major prayer kept me from going there. On the flip when I was out there living that lifestyle there was not too much other than a better offer or I really wasn't feeling the girl(bad attitude, bad sex, etc) anymore that would deter me. I have never been one of those dudes that will sex a woman no matter what, there were variables that could definitely effect me going there with them.See More
ReplyDeleteSometimes we are just not in the mood. Would it be the same for a woman if I was to contact her and ask her to come over for a night to remember if she wasn't in the mood? Yes, we are human and sometimes we just don't want it.
ReplyDeleteI feel all of the Above. It is hard to turn down a good meal even when you know it may not be the best thing to do. Some women offer food with bad intentions. It can be very hard to turn down what looks to be a great chance at getting trim. But because I have so much respect for my current partner. I gladly remove myself from the situation.....? such an inner battle that can be.
ReplyDeleteI think that if a man is not completely interested in the female or doesn't find her attractive would be a valid reason for not wanting to have sex. I also agree with Ralph that sometimes men are just not in the mood as women often aren't. I further agree with Maicah about women offering food with bad intentions. My man's ex used to do that and was successful for a long time. He would try to leave, but always go back knowing he didn't want to and shouldn't for the betterment of himself. Some women can be VERY deceitful, which is a turn off to men I'm sure.
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