Thursday, October 7, 2010
Bedroom Boundaries - Pt. 1
Have you ever considered inviting other people to participate in bedroom fantasies? Is this appropriate in any phase of a relationship? If your marriage was on the rocks and you knew this was a fantasy your spouse had, do you think you would fulfill that in effort to save your marriage or do you think it would make matters worse?
Discussion around what happens between couples behind closed doors has long been taboo. I feel like today a lot more goes or at least a lot more is discussed and out in the open. It's no secret that many men and women alike have particular fantasies and have at least entertained the idea of engaging in different activities in order to reach their pleasure points. But is exploring with other people ever a good idea when you're in a relationship or should this be limited to singles just out to play? .....
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Wouldn't do it.. Would only make matters worse. If you are just friends with benefits it's doable. But when in a serious relationship, no way.
ReplyDeleteI would say it's cool if it's something both want to do. I am just shocked some people still don't do certain things. When someone says that's nasty. I move on.
ReplyDeleteIf your marrage was on the rocks I don't think a threesome would save you anyway. If a man or woman cant/ won't stay MARRIED to you because of sex....maybe you're better off divorced.
ReplyDeleteI myself have considered it, but don't think I could go through with seeing my man with another woman. He agrees as well where he is concerned. I guess it all depends on the people involved. Will and Jada have an open relationship and that works for them. Others are more monogamous and would not dare think of sharing their partner. I'm with James though, I don't believe it would save your marriage at all, but it may add a different spice and sometimes that is what you need to break the monotony.
ReplyDeleteCould you ever trust your partner not to creep with that third party later, without you involved?
ReplyDeleteI think if your relationship is based on sex, or if it would take sex with an additional person to save or spice up the relationship, get your heads and hearts right because anything below the waist is waste. I'm after the mind, not the behind. All the rest follows.
If sex is the answer what is the question?
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ReplyDelete@Playboi23...I find it interesting that you say you're shocked that people still don't do certain things. Do you think more people SHOULD engage in these types of extra curricular activities? I don't want to assume so correct me if I am wrong but it kind of sounds like this is something you might regularly participate in?
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