It's been established that we all have our preferences and those often lead us to dating the same type of person. Opposites can and DO attract, but can they last? Or do the comforts of what we knew always come back to haunt us?
This song.....whew! I get so lost in it because I listen and think damn....I can soooo relate.
I can think of more people than not, who fit these lyrics. When you see them with someone new, even though it's different person, something is strangely familiar. I'm definitely guilty of falling for the same types and after taking a step back to reflect I realized that was the damn problem! You can't keep doing the same things, or in this case, dating the same kind of people and expect different results. If so, that just makes you crazy. But say those of us who suffer from the same type syndrome to manage to break the mold for a change. Is it possible to ever truly be 100% attracted to someone who isn't your type? If someone differs physically or personality-wise from what you've been accustomed to, do you think it can really work or will those preferences that we've talked about previously ultimately prevail?
I think they do attract, (opposites )and for a very long time. Lord knows I Dont want to wake up to myself every day. I already have been dealing with me for over30 years. Lol . My current girlfriend is what I feel as the perfect opposite. Or should I say she is the Perfect Balance to my life. She gets me to live and think outside my comfort box by being different from me. And I do,the same for her. When im mad or upset over a certain situation that maybe minor she is not. And I do the same for her. She pushes me to get better. And I need that sometime. ......ok now the other thing is falling for the wrong type. I think you only break out of that with age. I used to date women who pretty much could only offer me pussy and and maybe a good back rub?!!!!. And that only last for so long. Problems and concerns dont go away just because the sex is good. My advice is to try and date someone who can get you out of your comfort zone with intentions of making you better.
ReplyDeleteAwesome insight, Maicah! I'm happy for you and your girl!
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