An inquiring mind writes: The bf and I were discussing porn preferences. He likes black girls. In my opinion, beautiful black porn stars are few and far between. I see gigantic nipples on stretched out flat titties, c section scars, scarred up booties, horrible weaves and overall cheap movies. In fact, most of the beautiful black porn women aren't even in the ebony section.
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ReplyDeleteI have forced myself to stay off of pornhub.com, youporn.com, and xhamster.com! I was an addict of porn and I guess I am in "recovery"! But the truth is, my brain was saturated with the filth and more over, the Black/Ebony categories are far more limited than White people and the sick fetishes and other categories. Even when White girls are phat to death, I prefer my Sistas and to compensate for the lack of Sistas, I have to go to Brazilian and Latina girls.
I love Sistas in all shapes, sizes and colors! Corns, stretch marks, bad weaves, and all! I do hate too skinny or too fat Sistas and hate shaving bumps and ugly beat up "poom-pooms" though! I hate fake, over acting noises, sounds, and wack faces. I HATE WESLEY PIPES getting all the fly chicks and Mr. Marcus is over rated.
I know a girl who will rather see White people do porn 'cause she thinks they look "natural" doing that filth and that Blacks look stank and nasty doing porn.
In DC I stayed a Macombo's because I like that ghetto, real look on the dancers...that raw sexiness and attitude. No barbie doll, fake crap! C-Section scars and all! And not all Sistas are beat up and worn down. I see beauty in all my Sistas. And if major porn production companies deny or reject "real" Sistas, so be it. The 'hood dvd's showcase the baddest Sistas in the world to me.
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ReplyDeleteMy wifey gets disgusted in my [past] indulges in porn. She would ask if I was digging the girl or was lusting after the girl...If I was picturing the guy was me with the girl! She and many girls think watching porn is a form of cheating and I can see why, honestly.
Furthermore, I even fast forward or skip when a "MANDINGO" Brother is on the scene 'cause I feel like she might compare me to him and run out and try to find such a Brother! So I guess porn indeed generates jealousy, eny, lust, and sows the seed of lower desires and such.
One woman told me that in bed I am like a porn star, so I smiled and stuck my chest out like I was "The Man"! She then explained that was not a compliment, that she wanted to be loved, respected, caressed, romanced...I had been so influenced by porn that I though that was the only way to prove my manhood and "put it down". For some it is the way, but I learned to be Swift and Changeable! Versatile and Complete....It's a time and place, season and reason for everything!
First and foremost, I would like to thank Shabazz120 for enlightening me about two more porn sites-LOL. Will be checking out youporn and xhamster.com in due time. Second, all of those things you mentioned, i.e big nipples, stretch marks, and the like (the exception being the bad weave) is what makes some black women in porn so intoxicating.....the naturalness of them. I HATE white women in porn because the look like plastic barbie dolls...fake. But I would also say that I LOVE Asian or Spanish women of porn. With regards to your man watching another race, so what? Means nothing. I'm sure thousands of men fantasized about gettin' it on with that green chick from the old Star Trek series, or probably even an blue Avatar (I did). Men just like DIFFERENT.
ReplyDeleteIt has always been hard for black entainers period. Even if they having sex on Camera!!! It will always be a double standard. Through out history white women are always look at as prize possesions. so many people put them up on a pure level. I love black women. and if and when i choose to look at porn I myself like to look at black women. I just love them. Crazy thing is when I look at another race of women . I would prefer they look like black women. I have been watching porn for 20 years now(im only 31). And it has changed just like Hip Hop has. its more in your face and I am who I am type stuff. And more and more independent companies. Just like the rap game and alot of elements associated with it in the Media people think black influence makes it trash. ( thats up for debate all around). We have gone from Heather Hunter to Jada Fire, from Angel Kelly to Roxy Reynolds. I agree with what Michael said sometimes you just want to look at some different stuff. every now and than I like my thick white girls like Devon Lee, Kelly Divine and Jayden James.
ReplyDeleteDon't forget EskimoTube.com and tjoob.com... I'll begin with my preferences... Jazmine Cashmere, Lacey duvalle (used to be), Kapri Styles, and Misti Love... There are obviously others but thats the first to come to mind... As far as 'black v all other'... Yes, that is my preference to watch. Perhaps it is because for such a long time (during my introduction to porn) Caucasian pornography was on the forefront. It wasn't until the LATE 90's that the 'Ebony' category became a societal top three... I think one thing that is plaguing the black porn community is that blacks are still paid lower rates than whites. Though your Pinky's, Jada Fire's, Carmen Hayes' are regularly seen porn icons, their checks still pale in comparisons to your Shyla Styles and Eva Angelinas... I also see a trend in filming groups to go for those that will accept lesser checks. Prime example... Ghetto Gaggers... DISGUSTING! Some times they have 'regulars' on it, but for the most part they at least appear to be lower income and not very interested in being there. And there are definitely NO PHYSICAL STANDARDS with sites like that...
ReplyDeleteAs far as significant others, I'm sure my wife isn't doing backflips about my view of certain materials and even though she hasn't asked this of me, I've cut down my watch SIGNIFICANTLY. Not completely (let's be realistic here), but significantly... But it being a form of cheating? I don't know that I agree. Sure, you're imagining someone else at times, but is that not normal? Normal in terms of EVERYONE has thought of someone else at least once in their relationship. Perhaps not while 'doing the do', but is that not human? As long as these thoughts are not acted upon, or they are not the ONLY thing you think of instead of your significant other, so what... Many people would bring about the question, "Well what if she watched porn and thought of someone else, how would you feel?" My answer to that is why the hell would I ask?????? If you aren't prepared for the worst possible answer, don't ask the question. Does she still make me feel like I'm the center of the universe? Is "mine" ALL she's partaking in? That's all that matters.
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Well I think some women may feel its a form of cheating because we are emotional beings whereas you males are physical (with the exception of some bitchassedness here and there that put yall on our level lol). So if we feel like our man is thinkin about other chicks it may as well be as bad as going out and doing it. It could potentially make a woman insecure depending on how much time you devote to this extra curriculars. But why do you say Lacey used to be a fave, muzek?? Just curious .
ReplyDeleteDid I just get called a bitch on the low??? lol
ReplyDeleteI can see your point tho. It's not even something I would argue with the misses. Maybe one day I'll cut watching it altogether...
Well as far as Lacey... She didn't HAVE to get a breast enhancement and butt enhancement like she did. She already had a SICK body... I HATE it when the women gets into a particular position and you can she where the real parts and fake parts separate... The butt almost looks like she had it done twice. After a while she got thicker on her own and she was PERFECT (cuz in the beginning she was a bit too skinny). But then all the sudden she was almost too enhanced... Naturally being HOT is the best to me in the particular industry... Even if you wanna enhance, if you're already great looking, only a LITTLE more is ok...
Ewwwww lol oh ok. I just imagine it looking like my barbies that had separated parts lol
ReplyDeleteAnd no I Didnt call u a bitch lol
ReplyDeleteWhat is it about these porn stars that turn men on anyway? Is there a particular thing that you look for???
ReplyDelete@Khay Lee...The turn on is the submission of the woman to the man. The dominance, control and power the man has over the woman. It is the woman doing anything and everything we want her to do. It strokes the male ego to have woman perform for and with us with no hesitation or reservation...Often stuff our "Good Women", our wives and girlfriends "CLAIM" they won't do!
ReplyDeleteIn every Black woman you can find every other race and nationality, for the Black woman is the Mother of Civilization, Mother Earth and the Moon...It's just our lower desire and lower self that has us defile her, for she seems to like it like that ever since the White man stuck it to her like that..Doggie Style, Oral, Anal, and all that Dildo/Imitation of Life, and fetish sex all comes from the European cave days including sex learned from and practiced with animals and objects.
We learned that too during slavery and we adopt that form of savage pleasure, sadly, and now we take it as the norm!
The best Black Love scene is in "Superfly", in the bathtub...Check it out! And then buy the movie, "Sankofa". Sankofa is a must see and a must have for your movie archives!