Raise your hand if you were raised with the belief that sex should wait til marriage? Well.....raise your hand again if you can count how many times that has gone out the window for either yourself or someone else you know.
Does anyone wait til marriage anymore? Would you marry a virgin, why or why not? If you're already married, would you have still married your spouse if he/she had been a virgin? Or do you wish he/she HAD been a virgin?
Well, without putting all my business out there, I will say that from trial, ERROR, and experience, I would take back 95% of my partners or exploits. For me, "the act" was cheapened, dulled, frivolous, common, and lack luster after a while of excess. Women fell for my corny lines as well as my best of my blow your mind lines. It was nothing...TOO EASY! So I lost respect for women and ultimately for myself when it came to sex. Whoever you lay with, you leave something behind with that person as well as take something away and that is positive and negative as well as mentally, spiritually, physically, emotionally, and CHEMICALLY! So discretion is vital to a healthy relationship and LIFE.
I wish I would have listened to my Father and Mother when they gave their Wisdom, Instruction, and Advice about discretion, [self] respect,waiting for that right person and/or to be married first. If I knew then what I know now, I'd choose to be a virgin again except for wanting to keep the children I have made and quite a few BANGIN'(pun intended)experiences I do not regret!
Yeah...I hope there are woman who hold on to their priceless wombs and worth, still virgins in this hyper-sexual, perverted, superficial, materialistic, and misogynistic society.
Well, without putting all my business out there, I will say that from trial, ERROR, and experience, I would take back 95% of my partners or exploits. For me, "the act" was cheapened, dulled, frivolous, common, and lack luster after a while of excess. Women fell for my corny lines as well as my best of my blow your mind lines. It was nothing...TOO EASY! So I lost respect for women and ultimately for myself when it came to sex. Whoever you lay with, you leave something behind with that person as well as take something away and that is positive and negative as well as mentally, spiritually, physically, emotionally, and CHEMICALLY! So discretion is vital to a healthy relationship and LIFE.
ReplyDeleteI wish I would have listened to my Father and Mother when they gave their Wisdom, Instruction, and Advice about discretion, [self] respect,waiting for that right person and/or to be married first. If I knew then what I know now, I'd choose to be a virgin again except for wanting to keep the children I have made and quite a few BANGIN'(pun intended)experiences I do not regret!
Yeah...I hope there are woman who hold on to their priceless wombs and worth, still virgins in this hyper-sexual, perverted, superficial, materialistic, and misogynistic society.